Being with someone you love is a real happiness in life.Cuddling,hugs and kisses is fun.But what if you are single?
What if you are UNATTACHED? How does it feel like? The feeling of how can you even survive Valentines without feeling terrible that you are alone while everyone else is happy and having dinner date and you are just chilling at home?
I’ve been in a relationship a long time ago,and I am in the stage of “Looking for my Special Someone” mode right now, but while looking out for him, I might as well write things about my day to day experience of being SINGLE.
This blog post of mine do not necessarily reflect everyone’s idea of being single or for not being in to relationship, this is how I personally feel, and maybe some people is feeling too.
Everyday is Independence day!
This is what single people love about being unattached,the I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-C-E. I personally love doing things I wanted to do without asking anyone’s permission or telling them the thing I gotta do everytime.
I don’t have to text “HIM” that I am going out with some friends, or going out for a drink or if am going to poop or if I just woke up or if I just arrive in the office or if I just open my eyes or if I just charge my phone or anything!
Okay! My examples are just way too exaggerated,I know! But I had an experience of doing those things, like texting “HIM” specifically the things I just did or just about to do. Whooa, the feeling of being independent is just the same feeling of taking off your bra after wearing it the whole day.
The Forever Alone Feeling
Single people for sure felt this Forever Alone Feeling once or twice or more in their life.I myself feel this whenever I am emotional(which is the worst feeling ever), whenever I want to feel like cuddling someone but then I remember I am a Forever Alone person so I will just hug my pillow and cry (JK) or whenever I am reminiscing good old memories while listening to some love songs that I once dedicated to a person.(Tip: If you are moving on,do not listen to some song that makes you remember the person you are trying to forget, or else you are just torturing yourself.)
It is sometime depressing in a way that it is making me ask myself WHY AM I ALONE? But in the end of the day, I always see the bright side of being independent and single HAHAHA (evil laugh).
If you are in a searching for a girl/guy mode, you might be dating some cool girl/guy you like. I can say that this is one of the fun part of being single.You can enjoy meeting new people in a way that you might like them and they might like you and BAAM! You might just be the perfect couple in the future.
Okay, so meeting new people might be overstated here.What I mean is, there are a lot of chances for you to know a lot of person when you are in a Searching Mode.You can try Online Dating or Blind Dates or you can ask your friend to match you up with some of their friends.The possibility of liking a person is way too high when you get to know them,and looking for someone is the fun part of being unattached.Happy Hunting!
Hashtag True Happiness
When you are just alone and you are all by yourself, there are people that will make you realize what True Happiness is.They are hiding as our Family and Friends. The sure thing of being single is that you don’t have someone special by your side, but that thing won’t stop the magic of true love by your family and friends. They will always be there in your high and lows, they will never ever unattached their string to you, they are our #TrueHappiness.
More of About Me
I believe this is the last part we where I realized I have to learn more about myself.Being alone will make you realize the changes about yourself, it will help us grow and build things up in our own ways. We are not getting any younger, and I am pretty sure that the person 10 years ago is not you anymore, I myself believe that I have new ideas of what my life in the future might be and there are changes from my ideas 10 years ago. Having your space alone is a chance of knowing more of yourself and growing up to it.
YES! That is all for this post. I hope you guys somehow relate to it even if its more of in general. In the end of the day I still believe that SINGLE slash UNATTACHED people is reserved to someone awesome and amazing.Keep believing and keep spreading the love!
Have a nice day lovies! <3